Joint Birth: Make The Right Choice

    To be or not to be shared leave - one of the vital questions of the modern family. In the west, the joint labor practice for several decades. Our domestic hospital enthusiastically support this idea, the number of births is increasing every year.Experts say that the presence of the father of the child in the delivery room creates a favorable environment for new mothers, a calming effect on her.

    The wife hears her husband's voice, it gives her confidence, and birth at the same time pass more smoothly than usual. In addition, the husband may distract his wife from the bad thoughts, telling her jokes or reading aloud to your favorite books and magazines. Will help to restore contact with the medical staff.
However, we must remember that in the joint delivery are not only advantages but also disadvantages. By cons, according to the doctors, may include an unexpected reaction of women during childbirth. It is likely that the presence of her husband's cause irritation, and it will even berate his mate. Sometimes the woman is complex and can not give birth, have her husband stand outside the door.


    Some husbands, seeing the suffering of his wife during childbirth, have a strong sense of guilt, which can stay for life. As a result of psychological trauma they may become impotent.

    So, who can also participate in joint delivery, and to whom it is absolutely contraindicated?
Rozaje together if you have a family love and understanding, if you trust her husband, as herself. If her husband prepare for childbirth by attending special courses, and realized that he was to be seen. And finally, if the husband himself very much wants to participate in the joint delivery.

    In no case does not settle for the presence of her husband during childbirth, if your family relations are deadlocked, or given a crack. It only harm. Also, do not feel overly impressionable psyche of man, the consequences can be detrimental to his health. If you're afraid that her husband will see you without makeup, then do not risk, you will feel insecure and constrained, and not vice versa. And do not transfer responsibility for the birth of a child on the shoulders of her husband, causing him to look at the birth.Believe me, anything good it does not lead.

    Joint childbirth is an extremely important step for every family. For some, it is quite natural development, for others - a courageous act, which is very hard to decide.

    Do not hurry with a choice of carefully weigh all and choose the suitable option. You have decided to give birth together? Then do not be afraid. Even if your decision was not completely thought through, never too late to make a compromise. My husband will be with you during labor and childbirth perezhdet for maternity room door.Whatever the outcome of birth is important - having a healthy baby. And in front of the child's many amazing moments that he will live with her caring, loving parents.